Magic

Hello wonderful people of the Internet!

Lately I’ve been thinking of the power of magic. YES MAGIC.
I think it exists and we are all subject to it at some point or another.

Let’s think of those times you really want to talk to someone you haven’t talked to in a while and all of a sudden the phone rings and it’s that person. Coincidence? Maybe.
My friend says she doesn’t believe in coincidences and this type of things is just random and inexplicable. I on the other hand, really believe in a sort of magic.
I think the level of magical energy varies from person to person. Also, sometimes we meet people who don’t necessarily have a high magical energy in general but they do with us. I think that is linked back to the concept of soulmates. Many don’t believe in soulmates as we only hear about this in the romantic context but soulmates can be friends or family members too. Sometimes we meet our soulmates and fall in love but realize that they are not the person that we are meant to be with. Why? Why would anyone be in that situation? Soulmates aren’t just a love matter as I mentioned. 

I think our soul is broken into pieces before our own existence. Some people we meet through our life  are so connected with us that even become our best friends and partners of life might just be pieces of that one soul. It is no coincidence that you feel extremely connected to that person; that the time flies by when you talk to her/him and they just become so important to you that when they are not there, your energy goes down. You miss them. You long for them. Not only you, but the universe feeds off of the great energy that soulmates radiate together. 

I believe that when you strongly think of someone with all of your heart and energy, they can feel that energy and as a result they think of you too. It is a feeding mechanism. You are away from this person but the universe is trying to bring you back together and refilling your cosmic energy at the same time. I know it’s a crazy idea but it has happened to me a few times throughout my life that I’ve felt this way with friends and other people and it manifests in the sense of me having dreams that involve that person, thinking about them, and a few times even seeing them at a place randomly after thinking of them. Was I making making an invisible call? 

I have a scientific theory behind it involving time and space but I wont get into that for now.
For now, let us be wrapped in the magic.
Use that energy on your favor and make every moment with every person magical.
Be aware of soulmates. They are hard to spot and rare to cross paths with but believe me, I have experienced it.

-Call it magic, When I’m with you

TheStarryEyedGirl

Remedy for a Broken Heart

Whether it may have been by a friend, a crush, a boyfriend or even a spouse, we’ve all have gotten our heart broken at least once. We have all experienced the epidemic disease characterized by long nights of crying and lonesome days wondering what we could’ve done differently. People call it “heartbreak disease”.

The pathology of this disease has been widely studied, yet it seems like we haven’t discover a way to eradicate it. There might not be a cure for heartbreak disease, but there are some remedies I’ve collected through time that would certainly help on relieving the symptoms on what may actually be a “psychological disorder”. We forget, we move on, and it’s gone.

I, just like you, have gotten my heart broken more than one time. It was not easy, but no matter how excruciating the pain, and how intense the symptoms may be, time does make it better.

Here is a list of things that have helped me.

1 1.    Surround yourself with fun, positive and caring friends. You need a good crowd for those times when you feel like crying, or need to talk to someone. 

2 2.    Perform some type of exercise, it will make you feel so much better as when you run, your body releases endorphins. These chemicals trigger a positive feeling in the body by interacting with some receptors in the brain which as a result lower your perception of pain, and make you feel positive and have a better outlook on life. 

3 3.    No matter the negative thoughts you get about the person that broke your heart, DO NOT express them. Not saying them will be hard at first but soon it will become a habit and at some point they will be gone.

4 4.    Remember there is nothing wrong with you. There are billions of people in this world and each and every one of us has something unique to offer. If that person couldn’t appreciate you then they are not worth your time.

5 5.    Take time to pamper yourself! Now you have more time to enjoy!

6 6.    Go out with your friends; socialize! 

        Alcohol is never the answer but mingling with others is!

        Don’t ostracize yourself!

7 7.    Something that has particularly helped me is energizing and motivating others. Be the change you want to see in the world. Be positive, support those around you, and motivate them by example. If you have nothing to say, sometimes just being supportive of your friends and reminding them how great they actually are will help them. They will be happy and that in return will make you happy!

8 8.    Most importantly, no matter how sad you may feel, don’t get lost!

      People like me, that may be dealing with temporary or chronic depression, anxiety, fatigue, stress among other things are more inclined to be negative, lose motivation, and lose traits of their unique personality. Try to find yourself; it is an ongoing process. Everyday, tell yourself who you are and why you are so valuable. 

      Life is beautiful; so don’t waste time being sad!

I hope this helps you!

Sincerely,

TheStarryEyedGirl